Couple of very simple guidelines for wearing mens ties
Mens ties are a core in any well dressed mans wardrobe. You will need at the very least 5 of them. And in case you wear them consistently for work, an accumulation of 20ish neckties can be sufficed.
For times when you are not confident whether or not to wear a tie, it is advisable to generally be overdressed than under dressed. If there’s a alternative between being a bit overdressed or under dressed, then choose to go for overdressed. Sure, you will be noticeable a bit but, ladies (and gay men) are incredibly style conscious and they are going to notice and appreciate the effort you made to look your best. You may even become the conversation starter. Do not let that scare you. Being the center of attention is definitely superior to looking like somebody that does not care about his physical appearance.
When selecting your tie, an easy rule of thumb is that your tie should be no wider compared to widest part of the lapel on your suit jacket. The knot should also be balanced.
Classic is often in style. When ever going for a employment interview, attending a wedding or any other formalized affair a simple darker tie with either a solid color or small pattern will work.
Last but not least, take care of your ties. Keep them clean. Styles will come and go, but your ties will likely survive through the years. Do not utilize your tie as a napkin on your lunch break. Keep them away from the makeup, and you will probably build up a enormous army of ties that will last for many years.